2003-08-17 - 5:26 p.m. -
You can never break the chain.
I am in a pretty low place right now. I don't exactly know how to describe it, nor how to escape from it. I am incapable of feeling any sense of belonging right now. I feel that there just isn't a place out there anywhere for me. I feel like I am always stuck in almost-land. I don't fit in with the intellectuals because I am just not content with being absolutely boring. Although I am very intelligent, I love doing stupid things for the sake of doing stupid things and letting go. Intellectual friends could only turn their noses up at my public displays of idiocy. I don't fit in with the "good" kids because some of my tastes don't sit well with them. I am just bad enough that the only purpose I would serve in a friendship with good kids is to be the person constantly reminding them what "bad" is. I don't fit in with the "bad" kids because I'm too freaking good. To party-esque kids I am the nagging mother, party-pooper girl who is always reminding them exactly how bad the shit they do is. I'm not a slut. I'm not a lesbian. I'm not a raver. I'm not a druggie. I'm not a hippie. I'm not a punk. Where the fuck do I fit in? Nowhere. And this is my current dilemma. I just don't feel right trying to hang out with anyone because I feel like I can never really be in. I am never going to be on their list, I'm never going to be a person they call to do things with because I am just different enough that when they are with me it's a challenge to put up with whatever part of me doesn't fit in with them. I'm so scared. I could be any one of them but I'd always have my past, my stories, that would always paint me in a different life. Can I forget the past in an effort to secure myself with a future? I don't know. I'd like to think that somewhere there is someone who feels exactly the same as I do, stuck in the same place, doing nothing but crying about it making the people she/he does actually hang out with fairly upset. I can't win. I think I just have way too much to think about right now. I think I need some help. I think I need to spend more time with the people who do care about me without being upset the whole time making them regret being my friend. I think twelve hours of work overnight at Toys R Us tonight will give me plenty of time to think. Check you later, Jenn
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